We are fans of the complications. We see question marks where there is a clear full stop, we put suspension points at the end of the story whenever we don't want to face the fact that there can't be any continuation to it. We try to get things our way, forgetting that oftentimes we simply do not know what we are looking for. We end up hurting people in our endless search for happiness, and we get hurt ourselves. Whereas it should be pretty simple - every person has the right to be appreciated and a chance to be noticed. Don't give up on anybody before you really know what kind of person he or she is. Don't make quick judgements and don't jump into conclusions. every time you wanna do that - think that your snap judgement may hurt someone deeply.